*Only the names were changed.
Boy, was I tired yesterday. After purposely acting towards Will in the most loveable way as if he were my lord the day before, I waited for him in bed. When he arrived, I showered him with kisses and caresses and hugs. I required nothing back and received nothing in return. I often told him I loved him but silence from him was all I received.
I initiated sex. He thrusted roughly through most of it until he got an orgasm and then turned around and stayed far from me. After cleaning up, I laid close to him and cuddled him, kissed and caressed him. At one point, he said that his right leg was hurting. I made a joke and said that I think it would really help his leg if he laid on his right side. He chuckled a bit and said that he thought I was suggesting that for another reason. I replied that he saw right through me as a joke. He ended up laying in a spoon position but not very close and I took his arm and brought it around me.
At 1am I went to sleep on the couch for a bit as it was too hot for me upstairs. At 4:30 I came back to bed, at which point I couldn't sleep and started rubbing Will's face and hair. I asked him if I was bothering him. He said no. I continued to rub his body and gave him a massage until 5:30 in the morning after which he fell asleep and I got up to get ready for work.
I called him around 9:30 am. He was in a bad mood and was speaking roughly with Alia. We didn't talk much. Then I arrived from work around 3:15. He was still in a bad mood. I gave him a hug on his arm while he worked on the PC. He stated he needed to be left alone to work. So I left him alone.
I cleaned the house, played with the baby and gave her a bath. Then I had to go to the ultrasound appointment for our second daughter. I asked if he would have time to join us. He angrily said no and listed all the work that he would have to do. Shortly after, he started checking the news on the pc and watched some tv.
He told me that I would have to leave at 4:45 due to traffic and that I should take the Main street way to get there by 5:30. I told him that I prefered the bronson/riverside way as I am used to this. He got upset and said"Fine, Whatever". I replied that I was not trying to be difficult, that I was simply more nervous to go a new way but that I would go his way.
I then left for the appointment with Alia as Will prefered that I take her with me. I left at 4:52 and got at the clinic at 5:10, my appointment was just at 5:30 so I had to wait with Alia who was cranky at times and pay for extra parking. I came home and Alia had fallen asleep in the car. I let her sleep in my arms on the sofa until 6:30. Then I woke her up so she would be able to sleep that night. She cried for about 5-7 minutes as she was very tired.
I fed her and then made a Ciabatta chicken sandwich for Will even though he stated he wasn't hungry (as I knew he would be shortly). As I was cooking it, he said" something smells good"..I told him it was his sandwich and asked if he wanted to eat it at the table or on the sofa. He said he would come to the table. After about 5 minutes he showed up, ate the sandwich. I asked him if he wanted a second one, he said yes. I prepared a second one that he took from my hands and didn't say thank you. He ate part of the first half and left the rest on the table for me to pick up.
I cleaned the entire mess in the kitchen (from the day and supper mess) while he played air drums with two kitchen utensiles. He eventually picked up a few messes in the living room and then went back on the PC. I cleaned on and off in between playing with Alia. At 8:00ish he said he was going to take a shower. Around 8:30 he came back downstairs to sit at the PC. I had started the virus scan on the PC as there were continuous warning pop-ups that would appear while he was upstairs.
When Will sat at the PC, I took Alia upstairs to get her ready for bed. She didn't want to sleep and cried a lot. It took until 9:30 for her to fall asleep. The TV was loud and Will was laughing loud throughout his episodes. I finally came down and noticed he was not working (although he had no time for me that day due to his heavy workload). I asked if I could use the PC. He said that he decided to wait for the scan to be complete. We watched one episode of TV together and went to bed at which point Ron called and spoke to Will for 1 hour about the company problems/advice etc. Will did not want to talk or cuddle for sure after this. I went to sleep.
At 6:00 am, I woke up to get ready for work which starts at 7:00 am. I cuddled and kissed Will and initiated sex. He was reluctant and uninterested. He penetrated in a disengaged way and it took 20 minutes for him to get an orgasm as he would lose his erection and have to thrust almost angrily to get it back. He did not touch me with his hands, nor speak with me. He got his orgasm and turned away from me, saying nothing. I offered to bring him water, he took one sip and said that he didn't like city water.
I took my shower and sang to the Lord quietly. Came out of the washroom, gave Will a kiss as he turned his lips away from me, told him I loved him (no reply) and wished him a good day to which he simply grunted. Seems like Will is annoyed or angry with me. I think it is because I am doing everything right in the sense that he now has no "reason" for leaving me and may feel like he is even more stuck with me.
So sad how he doesn't see that I am one in a gazillion and that God has actually blessed him with a pretty good and very rare wife. My God is my strength, he upholds the righteous. Blessed be the name of the Lord. In Him will I trust and be victorious. I am a friend of God, he calls me friend. xxx
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